We can boast about being the expert proposal planners for the rest of eternity, but the truth is that we’re nothing without our amazing couples who trusted us.
An engagement is one of the most important moments in life, and for us to not just be a part but also to plan and execute it to perfection along with our clients is what we’ve loved the most. Truth bombs aside, today we want to share a few tips to ensure that your surprise proposal is executed perfectly, which means – no awkward moments and amazing photos!
Communicate, communicate, communicate There are two main people you need to communicate with on this very special day of your life. Number one is your partner. So a lot of times a couple does not come together to the venue, especially when there’s a backstory involved. For example, one of our couples lives miles apart – in New York and Seattle. He traveled from Seattle without her knowing, while she was bar hopping with her girlfriends. This involved both of them traveling separately to the venue. So here, he had to communicate with his partner’s friend who was in on the little secret. Depending on your backstory, you will need to communicate with your partner or a friend. The second person to communicate with is your surprise proposal planner, one of our team members. They need to know whether you’ll arrive in 5 mins or 30 mins to ensure things are ready for you. So, a heads-up will be greatly appreciated.
Lead your Partner Once at the venue, you will see this amazing decor and forget your surroundings. We get it. Our decor is amazing! (Just kidding, not). In all seriousness, your partner is already in awe and is probably still taking it all in. So you need to step up and lead them down the aisle or the red carpet. Cause chances are that they will keep turning around to look at you, and stopping which does not make very good video and photo content.
Another important reason for doing this is that we have flowers, vases, photo frames, etc, all placed on both sides of the aisle. So two people cannot walk side-by-side without their feet touching the decor. So that’s why, lead your partner.
Step into the heart While the decor differs for each proposal, we create a flower heart in front of the neon sign for 99 percent of our proposals. Once you walk down the aisle, make sure to enter into the heart and face each other for the proposal.
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Turn to the side to face each other Once you step into the heart, make sure the neon sign (Marry me or will you marry me) is to your left or right side, while you face your partner. Let us explain why.
If you’re standing with your face or your back towards the neon sign, the decor will not be a part of your proposal photos. Yes, everything that you paid for, will be out of the frame. Well, you’ll still have pictures of the decor, but your down-on-one-knee photo may have a different backdrop. So make sure, you remember this tip!
Keep your cool
We know the jitters and nerves kick in, but it’s important to keep your cool until the surprise proposal. Honestly, it pays to plan what you want to say in advance and focus on three points that you want to make sure are conveyed. This can help ensure that your message gets across clearly.
Just show up
Honestly, with all the back-and-forth conversations, our proposal planners have you covered. You just need to show up and live the magical moment with your soon-to-be fiancé.
To sum things up, Enchanting Engagements proposal planners will ensure that you have a stress-free marriage proposal, and if you need any answers, you just have to ask.
So are you ready to take the next step in your relationship?
Diamonds come in a variety of shapes and sizes, each with its own unique characteristics. From the classic round cut to the more modern cushion cut, there is a diamond shape for every style and budget.
The size of a diamond is determined by its carat weight, which is measured in metric carats. A higher carat weight means that the diamond will appear larger, but it also affects the price. Understanding how to determine the size of a diamond can help you make an informed decision when selecting your perfect engagement ring.
The different cuts, clarity, color, and carat weights can be confusing. It can take someone years to really understand and visualize how a diamond will look based on the above characteristics. The cut of each diamond is an integral part of its appearance, so it’s essential to be aware of how different carat sizes can affect the look. With this knowledge, you’ll be able to pick the perfect one that suits your style and aesthetic.
Let’s take a look at the most popular diamond cuts
Round Round-cut diamonds have a timeless appeal and can be quite appealing because they capture light and add sparkle to the piece. Moreover, their shape makes them very versatile, making them a great option for most engagement ring settings.
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Emerald Emerald-cut diamonds are in high demand these days especially among celebrities, owing to their rectangular shape with cut corners and large parallel facets which gives the maximum sparkle. They are an ideal choice for those who want their engagement rings to stand out.
Oval Oval diamonds are a beautiful example of classic and timeless style. Their elongated shape makes them easily recognizable and eye-catching. Every oval diamond is unique, as there is no universal dimension for this cut – creating an experience that’s tailored to you and your individual taste. Ovals come in various shapes and sizes, from narrow and elongated to wide and short.
Diamond sizes
Carat is a distinct unit of weight measurement used to weigh diamonds and gemstones. A common mistake that people make is confusing the carat weight with how large a diamond looks, though its purpose is actually to measure how much the diamond weighs. On average, a 1-carat round diamond has a width of 6.5 mm, which is larger than a 1- carat round sapphire, which measures about 6.0 mm. This is due to the different densities of gemstones.
When shopping for a diamond, the 4 Cs (Carat, Clarity, Cut, and Colour) must be taken into account. There is no specific order to assess them, but each of these has its own influence on the value and brilliance of the gemstone. But the most important aspect to consider when buying a diamond is to think about who’s going to receive it.
If you’re visiting NYC for the first time or have not been able to explore it as much, we know that looking for specific things to do can be draining! NYC is truly the city that NEVER sleeps! Let Enchanting Engagements help you find the most romantic and/or celebration settings during your engagement season!
We had previously talked about the importance of relaxing and reflecting before your engagement, as well as celebrating and enjoying the moment with loved ones right after you hear that YES! Below, we will include a couple of activities that can be done right here in NYC to help set the tone of love and connection right before and/or right after you pop the question.
AIRE Ancient Baths:
It is described as an “oasis of tranquility”. Let yourself be guided by the candlelight and the aroma of orange blossom and complete your experience with a massage or ritual to achieve a state of total relaxation of body and mind.
Rooftop Cinema Club:
Arrive early to immerse yourself in the cityscape and enjoy a full bar and food menu from Embassy Suites. Then grab your classic cinema concessions from the box office and select your seats. When the movie starts, you’ll be able to live completely in those movie moments with state-of-the-art wireless headphones and an amazing view of our new LED screen.
Rooftop Reds:
Rooftop Reds is the first urban rooftop vineyard in the world. While most people wouldn’t expect to see a vineyard growing in New York, the founder says it’s all about science. The Rooftop Reds seems to bring together the best of both worlds, and clients can enjoy their privileged view of the city while sitting in the middle of a vineyard.
One if By Land, Two if by Sea:
This restaurant offers gourmet food in a historic setting. Formerly the site of Aaron Burr’s carriage house, the eatery is characterized by several fireplaces, a live piano player, and 200-year-old paintings. The ambiance is one of old-world elegance and romance, with a touch of cool. Established in 1973, One if by Land, Two if by Sea soon became the go-to spot in NYC for engagements, anniversaries, and weddings. More people are said to have announced their engagement here than at any other restaurant in Manhattan.
At Enchanting Engagements, we know that getting engaged is such an exciting time! However, we also understand how overwhelming a marriage proposal can be. Making sure that this turns out perfect for your partner isn’t easy. There are so many components between getting the perfect ring, making sure loved ones are all there, preparing the perfect speech, and making sure every element of this proposal is a memory that they will never forget!
I am a firm believer that what makes a moment like this the most significant and memorable is when it becomes an experience rather than an instance. As you plan your engagement, we would like to help make this more of a memorable experience by talking to you about activities that you can do before and after this huge moment to celebrate this special transition in your love journey!
Relaxation & Reflection to prepare for FOREVER!
BEFORE embarking on this wonderful journey as an engaged couple, you want to make sure you and your partner are relaxed and calm. This will allow that special moment to sink in so much deeper. When we are relaxed, we are so much more present in every moment we are a part of. Some ways to relax and reflect with your partner may include getting a couple’s massage, having a romantic movie night under the stars, having an intimate picnic where you revisit your journey as a couple, and touring the most beautiful views of NYC either by land on a horse carriage ride or a kayak/boat in Central Park, etc.
Celebration and Gathering as you plan for FOREVER!
AFTER hearing the most anticipated words of the night ‘YES I DO!’ , you will want to celebrate this moment with the most important people in your lives! Whether you want to do a classy dinner or party the night away to experience your love along with your loved ones, the most important thing to make sure of is that there is a vibe that matches your energy. If you’re looking for a romantic setting, you can try a restaurant with ambient lighting or a cruise with live music. If you’re looking for a more passionate and flirty setting, you can visit one of many speakeasy bars and/or rooftop wineries /bars in NYC.
There are countless opportunities in NYC to make sure your engagement is MEMORABLE and UNFORGETTABLE! Next week, I will share a couple of my favorite spots that encompass the factors shared above!
Planning an engagement can be stressful, there are so many things to consider! Location, décor, how to get them there, who you want to invite and so much more. It is one of the hardest events to be behind it all and mentally present for the moment. This is where Enchanting Engagements comes in. Our expert event planners are here to help! We’ve created a breakdown for those of you who have no idea where to start!
Let’s start with Venue! The easiest way to help decide is to reflect on the type of fun your partner likes to have.
– Fun, free-living, spontaneous, loves nature and the little things, Try the beach Proposal!
– Loves nights on the town, dressing up, and closing out the night, Try an enclosed rooftop proposal!
– Shy, introverted, likes small and sweet gestures, Try an outdoor rooftop proposal during the sunset!
– Classy, sleek, less is more kind of person, Try a proposal in the park!
Once you narrow down the venue, our experts can help pick the theme, flowers, decor, sweets, music, and of course personal touches, your proposal must be unique and tailored to your love story.
If you find yourself having trouble choosing the color of flowers an easy reminder:
White Roses are timeless, soft, and will look elegant for years to come.
Red Roses are incredibly romantic and will be sure to catch your partner’s attention.
For your final touches, you will need a handful of favorite songs (four or five) and some of your best memories/pictures with you and your soon-to-be spouse! That’s it! Planning an engagement with Enchanting Engagements takes all the stress out of the event. you can be fully present with your partner and in the moment, not worrying about any of the little things. Not only do we help you from start to finish, but we are also here to make sure family and friends are in the right space too. Have questions? We’d be happy to help in the live chat!
